Future Thinking

Future Thinking

When we decide what we want, we make it happen. Think about how this is true in your life. You created the job you are in. You created the relationships you have. You created your life. Are you happy? Making a change all starts with deciding what you want. I went to...
Responsibility equals power

Responsibility equals power

We are responsible for our lives. When we take responsibility, we have power. When we don’t, we are a victim and have no power to make a change. It is easy to be a victim when things aren’t going our way. Relationships, careers, health are easy places to become a...
Your actions influence others

Your actions influence others

We are all leaders. We are making an impact even if we don’t realize it. We influence our friends and family with the things we do, or don’t do, every day. There are many ways to do everything. We get to decide how we do things. I lead my clients to find a career that...
Changing the Story

Changing the Story

How we look at our life in the past and present is through stories. Things happen and we have a story. If there are three people in the story, each will have a different impression of the event. The stories we tell ourselves are just that, stories. We bring our...
Insight comes from Reflection

Insight comes from Reflection

Reflections turns experiences into insight. Since I first posted this Tuesday Tip, I keep coming back to this statement. I have had a bunch of uncomfortable personal situations this fall. I had a breakup, a family wedding and a nasty friend encounter. Each situation...
Reinvention Stages

Reinvention Stages

When it is time to make a change there are three stages we go through. Stage 1: I don’t know what to do next This is a common place to be. You had a plan, you made it happen. Now that first career isn’t what you want anymore. There can be many reasons to move...
New Career: Dream and Explore

New Career: Dream and Explore

Now it is time to dream. If you could do anything what would that be? This can be a scary question. But I am here to help. With the information we have gathered during the awareness stage, you are now ready for a brainstorming session. I love brainstorming. There is...
New Career in a Year: Step 2: Mindset

New Career in a Year: Step 2: Mindset

Our minds control our lives. We create what we think about. If we think we will have a good day, we usually do. If we wake up in a bad mood, the day tends to go that way too. We create our reality. The brain has two functions. One is to think. The other is to prove...
Why We stay Stuck

Why We stay Stuck

It has been a month of tips about the reasons we stay stuck. You probably realize now that all of the reasons stem from fear. Your brain has two functions. It’s first function is to come up with thoughts. The second is to prove your thoughts are true. Your brain is...