Boundaries

Boundaries

Setting boundaries is telling people how you want to be treated. If you don’t tell them how will they know? We tend to think they are a negative thing. We don’t have to look at them this way. We can look at them like they are our guidelines for ourselves and others....
File of Fabulousness

File of Fabulousness

A file of fabulousness is the perfect thing for those days you don’t feel it. My Mother is a narcissist. It has been hard for me to think I am great. I don’t want to be anything like a narcissist. I had work to get past this thought. We all need to love ourselves. I...
Boundaries

Upper limits

A healthy directive I try to live by is: Feel all of your feelings. Feeling sad or aggravated are hard. We understand how staying with that feeling is difficult but necessary. Staying with the feeling reveals more about that feeling. I have worked through many issues...
Acclimating

Acclimating

It is summertime. I don’t know about you but I find it harder to work in the summer. I want to hike and bike and just play outside on the beautiful days. My routine is off and it is hard to adjust. This is also the time for summer vacations. Which are supposed to be...