Upper limits

Upper limits

A healthy directive I try to live by is: Feel all of your feelings. Feeling sad or aggravated are hard. We understand how staying with that feeling is difficult but necessary. Staying with the feeling reveals more about that feeling. I have worked through many issues...
Daily habits

Daily habits

“From the time you get up in the morning to the time you go to sleep at night,your habits largely control the words you say, the things you do and the way you react and respond. “ Brian Tracy   It’s what we do daily that controls our life. I have worked to make...
Consistency: Patience

Consistency: Patience

Patience is needed to continue to be consistent without results When I started biking regularly last year I began by just scheduling it (starting a habit) and doing it regularly. I was riding after my first morning appointment then going back to work after I was...
Responsibility

Responsibility

When I was going through my second divorce I was a mess.My second marriage was ending. What was I doing wrong? Why wasn’t I able to make my marriages work? I was given the book “The Year of Living Consciously” by Gay Hendricks This book is laid out to read daily. Each...
Are you happy?

Are you happy?

We are in charge of our lives. We are in control of our happiness. Sometimes we think we don’t have control of our happiness, that other people are in control. This is not true. Sometimes we think other people had all the advantages that is why they are happy. This is...
Everything is Temporary

Everything is Temporary

I recently read an article about Bruce Springsteen. He said that when he looks back at the old songs it feels like eight lifetimes ago. Our life is always changing. And everything is temporary. Who you are now isn’t who you were years ago. Even if you have the same...