Boundaries

Boundaries

Setting boundaries is telling people how you want to be treated. If you don’t tell them how will they know? We tend to think they are a negative thing. We don’t have to look at them this way. We can look at them like they are our guidelines for ourselves and others....
File of Fabulousness

File of Fabulousness

A file of fabulousness is the perfect thing for those days you don’t feel it. My Mother is a narcissist. It has been hard for me to think I am great. I don’t want to be anything like a narcissist. I had work to get past this thought. We all need to love ourselves. I...
Are you happy?

Are you happy?

We are in charge of our lives. We are in control of our happiness. Sometimes we think we don’t have control of our happiness, that other people are in control. This is not true. Sometimes we think other people had all the advantages that is why they are happy. This is...
Everything is Temporary

Everything is Temporary

I recently read an article about Bruce Springsteen. He said that when he looks back at the old songs it feels like eight lifetimes ago. Our life is always changing. And everything is temporary. Who you are now isn’t who you were years ago. Even if you have the same...
Taking Compliments

Taking Compliments

How do you take compliments? Do you just say “thank you”? Or do you deflect? Do you say something like-“Oh this old thing”, “I got it for $5”, “I have had it forever”.Why do you think that you do that? Deflecting is a learned behavior and a lot of us do it. I noticed...
New Year’s Resolutions

New Year’s Resolutions

  Happy New Year and Welcome to 2020. Here we are at a new year with new goals and new possibilities. Leading up to this time there is a lot of pressure-the holidays, gifts, family, travel… The main topics and questions in media and from people around you are...