Blocks: Failure

Blocks: Failure

One of my biggest lessons was from my second divorce. I knew that I was the common denominator in each marriage. I was one of the factors in the health of the relationship. It was time to figure out my part. Counseling helped open my eyes. The learning began, and it...
Time management: Focus

Time management: Focus

The things that we use to make our lives easier, like our phones and computers, are the things that keep us from being focused. Being focused is the best way to get something done. If you feel you can’t get anything done it’s time to check your distractions. The movie...
Curiosity. The mindset for change

Curiosity. The mindset for change

Having an open curious mindset is an important start to finding a new career. When you come at ideas with curiosity you will ask different questions than if you don’t. Think about a new situation. If you come to learn, you look at the situation with an open mind you...
Write your Eulogy

Write your Eulogy

I work with people who are looking for a new career. They want one that aligns with their values and their ideal life. I find that most haven’t taken time to decide what that ideal life looks like. Looking into the future is a good way to determine how you want your...
Your Stories

Your Stories

Our stories define our lives. For a long time, I held onto the stories from my childhood where I was the victim. As the victim I was giving my power away. That wasn’t what I thought when I held on to the stories. In fact, I thought the opposite. I thought of them as...
Sharing your boundaries

Sharing your boundaries

You have set your boundaries. Now it is time to share them with others. When do you do this? How do you tell others so they will honor them? When I have a theme for a month, I think about it and learn all I can. Boundaries are on my mind. I recently got a new kitten....