Time to Evaluate your year

Time to Evaluate your year

We are at a that time of year. Time to look at this past year and plan for next year. This month is all about evaluation. Time to see all you have accomplished. When I started my evaluation, I was looking at the physical things I did. One being the erection of my...
Courage, fear and trusting your gut.

Courage, fear and trusting your gut.

I have talked about courage and fear going hand in hand. Then I spoke about trusting your gut.How are these things different? Fear comes to the surface, it is obvious. You need to react immediately to the danger signals you are feeling. It can’t be ignored. You either...
Anxiety

Anxiety

Anxiety is just fear. Working through the fear will help you get through it. When I am true to myself, take care of myself, love myself, the anxiety lessens. It is when I am not in integrity, not grounded, and do not have my back, that is when anxiety takes over. We...
Boundaries

Boundaries

Setting boundaries is telling people how you want to be treated. If you don’t tell them how will they know? We tend to think they are a negative thing. We don’t have to look at them this way. We can look at them like they are our guidelines for ourselves and others....
Our Stories

Our Stories

Our stories are what define our lives. We decide the stories we tell. The question is: Are these the stories we want defining us? Stories are subjective. We all see things differently because of our experiences and backgrounds. Think about that game, telephone, we...
File of Fabulousness

File of Fabulousness

A file of fabulousness is the perfect thing for those days you don’t feel it. My Mother is a narcissist. It has been hard for me to think I am great. I don’t want to be anything like a narcissist. I had work to get past this thought. We all need to love ourselves. I...
Time Management

Time Management

There is never enough time in a day to get everything done. I think that is a false statement. We do have enough time. It is all about priorities. I have found that I always have enough time to do the things I really want to do. Most of you already know I worked in...
Decisions

Decisions

Unmade decisions clutter your mind. The thought is just hanging in the background waiting to be decided and shelved. One reason people don’t make decisions is because they aren’t sure if it is the right decision. Until you decide, you will not know if the decision is...
Open your mind to creativity

Open your mind to creativity

I grew up before cell phones and computers. There were only five channels on the TV. I remember watching bowling on rainy days-it was the only thing on. We didn’t have constant entertainment to distract our mind. Our minds had a lot of time to dream and create. Now...